Girls Night #295: Feeling Behind When Everyone Else Is Moving Forward?

 
 
 

IN THIS PODCAST EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:

  • What to do if you feel like you’re late to your own life

  • Why your timeline doesn’t need to match anyone else's

  • What to do if you find yourself comparing your life to others highlight reels

  • How to figure out your next right step

 
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ABOUT THIS EPISODE


Hey friends! Welcome to Girls’ Night!

I’m so excited. We’re officially back for Season 21 of the Girls Night Podcast! Can you believe it? Twenty-one seasons of this show started in my bedroom closet when Carl and I were newlyweds and trying to figure out life, and here we are - still figuring it out together, just in different ways.

This season, we're going back to the heart of Girls Night. This show has always been for women in their twenties and thirties who are navigating the biggest decisions of their lives. Maybe you're single and wondering if you'll ever meet your person. Maybe you're newly married and trying to figure out how to blend two lives into one. Maybe you're thinking about having kids but you're not sure about the timing, or the finances, or if you even want to be a mom at all. Maybe you love your job but you're wondering if there's something else out there for you. Maybe you're feeling stuck, or lost, or like everyone else got a playbook that you never received.

If any of that is you - you are in exactly the right place.

Now, I have to tell you something. This summer, I'm doing something that feels pretty scary to me, but scary in the way where I know, "Oh gosh, this is definitely what I'm supposed to do." I'm going to be doing more solo episodes. Just me, talking to you, like we're having coffee together or texting back and forth. No guests, no interviews – just the conversations I wish we could have if we were sitting across from each other right now.

I'm trying to listen and follow where I feel led, and this is where it's taking me. So we'll see where it goes! But I'm excited to go there with you.

Before we dive in, I want you to know something: this is a safe space. You don't have to have it all figured out here. You don't need a polished answer to "So what's next for you?" In fact, if your honest answer right now is "I have absolutely no idea," you are in exactly the right place.

Today we're talking about something I know so many of you are feeling – that nagging sense that you're falling behind in life. That everyone else figured out the secret playbook while you were... what? Making coffee? Scrolling Instagram? Living your actual life?

Here's what I want you to know right up front: You're not falling behind. You're not broken. And there's nothing wrong with you. What you're experiencing? It's not a you problem - it's an us problem.

I’ll tell you what I mean by that in the episode. Let’s dive in!




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Quotes to highlight:

"Your life doesn't exist to make other people comfortable. Your choices don't exist to validate other people's choices. Your timeline doesn't need to match anyone else's timeline." - Stephanie

"You get to decide what you want your life to look like. You get to decide what brings you joy." - Stephanie

"Your life should be a beautiful reflection of the woman who chose it." - Stephanie

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